Clearly there is some talking head hypocrisy on both sides but some points of clarification that I see:

The difference between Jamie Lynn Spears and Bristol Palin is Speers has appeared on the cover of a major magazine with a story that puts teen pregnancy is a very positive light. I don't see the Palin family championing their daughter's situation, saying it's an ideal situation or trying to make money on it like the Spears family have been.

On the gender card: Hillary has retreated behind her gender on occasions during the primary. Example one: when she was asked about the Driver's license for illegal immigrants question. She retreated behind her gender. Second: When she became tearful about how hard the challenge had been which resulted in a huge female voter turn-out in the following primary election.

I have not seen Sarah Palin whine, complain or cry about the attacks made on her or her family or said it was unfair to attack a woman. She has
So far she has toughed it out and fought back on the issues.